How many of you soon saw that hope and inspiration turn into frustration? How many of you (and be completely honest) started thinking and saying things like:
- “It seems to work for other people, but I just cannot get it right.”
- “I am frustrated that sometimes I can get it to work, but sometimes I cannot. What is the trick?”
- “Why am I having so much trouble?”
- “I think the universe is against me.”
- “I am trying very,VERY hard but still nothing is happening!”
Well, you are not alone so do not worry. Did you know that close to 97% of the people that try to use the Law of Attraction do not get it to work for them the first time? When you think about it, it makes sense because almost anything in life requires a lot of practice before you see success. A child does not learn to walk the first time he or she tries. A child learns to walk after falling over and getting back up and trying again....over and over again.
There is the saying that it is easier said then done and it can sure feel that way when you are are frustrated. It is hard to stay positive when you are frustrated but even more so when the evidence all around you screams negativity like the unstable ecomony or the senseless acts of violence.
Do you know what happens when you fail to stay positive? That is right – you start to attract negative things into your life. This is law....the Law of Attraction.
How can you make the Law of Attraction work for you without getting frustrated? How do those who successfully implement the Law of Attraction do it with such confidence and ease?
Well, I have compiled three quick tips to help you banish those negative thoughts of frustration so that you will learn how to start manifesting like a professional.
1. Allow Yourself To Receive
Just like a lost child who approaches a police officer and asks, “Excuse me Sir, can you tell me how to go to the post office? Can you? Can you? Can you? Can you? Can you?” Well, if the child goes on and on asking, the police officer cannot even give an answer, right?
It is the same thing with your mind and your thoughts. If the only thing your mind is doing is transmit, transmit, transmit, the universe — which is trying to respond — cannot give you a single thing because you’re not allowing yourself to receive!
So, have the confidence in yourself and stop exhausting yourself by running around person to person looking for riches, and then wondering why nobody is dropping a penny in your cup (Hint: It is because you are running away too fast for them before they can even reach for their wallets).
Just think of your desires and put them out there, relax, and trust that your cup will be filled with gold coins (or whatever it is you asked for) when the time is right.
2. Be Patient With Yourself
Receiving takes time.
Unfortunately, so many people give up just before the finish line because they get frustrated and decide that if it is not working by now, it is not going to work at all. Even worse are those that try to force the results but adding more and more resources and complexities. This usually ends up feeling like a struggle. This is like expecting 9 mothers to conceive and deliver a baby in 1 month. You also cannot bake cookies in half the time by doubling the temperature.
In simple terms: Everything in this world has a natural development time, and this fact will not change no matter what resources you throw at it.
So relax and be patient. Remember that you too, as part of the universe, are also governed by the laws of the universe, and you cannot change the natural development time.
If you remember this, you will less likely work yourself up into frustration, or worse, push yourself into a downward spiral of negativity.
3. Support and Educate Yourself
Like the child who is learning how to walk, you too require support. You require guidance and role models to look up to.
Many people give up because they think that “The Secret” is the “be all and end all” solution. The “The Secret” is just the tip of the iceberg. It was never intended, and has never been, the whole answer.
Coming to the conclusion that the Law of Attraction does not work when all you ever did to educate yourself was watch “The Secret” 19 times (without looking at changing the habits of other areas of your life) is like coming to the conclusion that exercising is not an effective way to lose weight because all you did is run on the treadmill for 2 hours a day (but you’re still stuffing yourself with fried foods and cheesecakes).
So seek and be hungry for new knowledge. Also, make an effort to be amongst people or communities where you can support each other, learn from each other and also share new knowledge that you have found.
While the Law of Attraction is not an overnight delivery service, it will indeed deliver, if you do your part too!
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